Stores like Adam & Eve: the alternatives, sorted by what you'd switch for

Adam & Eve is the big name in American mail order, and its 90-day returns promise is genuinely unusual. But it isn't the only way to buy, and it isn't best at everything. Tell us what you'd switch for, and we'll sort the alternatives.

Every row comes from the shops' own published policies, read in late September and early October 2026. Where a shop doesn't say something, the sorter treats it as unknown rather than guessing.

If returns are why you're there

Nobody else matches Adam & Eve on opened toys. The nearest is Lovehoney: one opened toy or bondage item per order can go back within 100 days, but you get a gift card, not your money. Good Vibes, Babeland, The Smitten Kitten and She Bop all treat sales as final once the box is open.

If you want a quieter parcel

Every shop here ships in plain packaging. What differs is what you can check in advance: Good Vibes and Babeland name Barnaby LTD on both the label and the statement, while Lovehoney (LH Trading), The Smitten Kitten (TSK, Inc.) and She Bop (SB, LLC) name the sender but not the statement line. Our doormat test prints what each one looks like.

If you need it fast

Adam & Eve's standard shipping can take two weeks in the west. Lovehoney publishes a Next Day price and a 3pm ET UPS cut-off; The Smitten Kitten offers UPS Next Day Air with guaranteed delivery times. The full list is on our next-day chart.

If you want body-safe without the homework

The Smitten Kitten and She Bop only stock non-porous insertable toys, so there's no jelly to dodge. The trade-off is strict returns at both. See body-safe shops and our materials guide.