
First choice for prostate & anal: Bondara (read our review)
Best for: Last-minute orders that still need to arrive discreetly
Score4.0/5
Full review of BondaraShops that stock them properly, with flared bases and honest materials.
The one rule that doesn't bend: anything going in the bum needs a flared base. After that it's material and size, and a shop that lists both clearly.
Filed behind this divider · UK

Best for: Last-minute orders that still need to arrive discreetly
Score4.0/5
Full review of BondaraWhy: Its own anal toys section
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Best for: Strap-ons, kink gear and anal toys from a sex-positive shop
Score3.3/5
Full review of BabelandWhy: Anal toys in the main menu

Best for: Buying insertable toys without reading every material label
Score2.8/5
Full review of The Smitten KittenWhy: Only non-porous insertables, so every anal toy is one you can clean properly
From any shop with a proper anal section: prostate massagers are curved to reach the prostate and usually sit beside the plugs and beads. The shops here list materials and sizes clearly, and our anal toys guide covers what to check.
The rectum can draw objects in. A base wider than the toy stops it going further than you meant, which is a trip to A&E nobody wants.