
First choice for lube & care: Sh! Women's Store (read our review)
Best for: Discreet parcels and real advice from a women-owned shop
Score3.9/5
Full review of Sh! Women's StoreShops that stock more than one bottle and can tell you which one suits.
Lube is the cheapest upgrade in the whole shop. The base matters most: water, silicone or oil, and which of your toys and condoms it's compatible with.
You can buy lube in any supermarket or pharmacy, but the range is usually two or three bottles. Sex shops stock the full spread of bases and sizes, and ship it in the same plain packaging as everything else.
Filed behind this divider · UK

Best for: Discreet parcels and real advice from a women-owned shop
Score3.9/5
Full review of Sh! Women's StoreWhy: Ask for advice before you buy
Filed behind this divider · US

Best for: Body-safe toys and gentle lube from a woman-owned shop
Score2.2/5
Full review of She BopWhy: Every lube it stocks is paraben- and glycerin-free

Best for: A trusted all-rounder with discreet shipping over $85
Score3.3/5
Full review of Good VibesWhy: Lube in the main menu
Supermarkets and pharmacies stock a few basics. For a proper choice of water-based, silicone and oil-based lube, buy from an online sex shop: it arrives in plain packaging like any other order.
Water-based for anything, especially silicone toys and condoms. Silicone-based for longer sessions and water play. Oil-based only without latex condoms. Our lube guide goes through each one.
It can degrade some silicone toys. Stick to water-based lube with them, or patch-test on the base first.