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BDSM and kink stores online

Shops with a real fetish range, not three sets of fluffy cuffs.

Kink gear is where range matters: restraints, impact toys, bondage tape, chastity, rope and the rest of the BDSM accessories. A BDSM shop with its own section in the main menu usually stocks the stuff properly.

Parcels with rope and restraints in them want the same discretion as anything else, so every shop here ships plain.

The chart, UK

2 shops · UK

  1. Simply Pleasure homepage, captured 29 Sep

    1. Simply Pleasure

    Its own fetish and BDSM section, from a wholesaler that's done this since the late nineties

    Where the fetish range goes deep

    Fetish and BDSM get their own section in the menu, stocked by a company that has been wholesaling this stuff since the late nineties. Free delivery at £40, and the statement reads ABS Holdings. Read the returns small print first, though: unwanted items carry a 5% restocking fee.

    — The editors

    Billed as
    ABS Holdings
    Standard
    3 days
    Free over
    £40
    Returns
    30 days
    Visit simplypleasure.com(opens in a new tab)

    Score3.6

    Full review of Simply Pleasure

  2. 2. Bondara

    A big kink section alongside next-day delivery

    The late-night next-day option. Last-minute orders that still need to arrive discreetly.

    Billed as
    Nagook Ltd
    Standard
    5 days
    Free over
    £49.99
    Returns
    30 days
    Visit bondara.co.uk(opens in a new tab)

    Score4.0

The chart, US

1 shop · US

  1. Babeland homepage, captured 29 Sep

    1. Babeland

    BDSM and kink in the main menu, next to strap-ons and anal toys

    Strap-ons and kink, bought with certainty

    The menu reads like a list of what people actually shop for: strap-ons, BDSM and kink, anal toys, all up top. Parcels and statements both say Barnaby LTD. The thing to know before you click buy: once the shipping box is open, it's yours. No change-of-mind returns at all.

    — The editors

    Billed as
    Barnaby LTD*1-833-471-1255
    Standard
    7 days
    Free over
    $85
    Returns
    Final sale
    Visit babeland.com(opens in a new tab)

    Score3.3

    Full review of Babeland

BDSM & kink: questions

Where can I buy BDSM gear discreetly?

Every shop here ships in plain packaging. Simply Pleasure bills as ABS Holdings, Bondara as Nagook Ltd, and Babeland as Barnaby LTD.

What's the best online BDSM store?

In the UK, Simply Pleasure, with a dedicated fetish and BDSM section, then Bondara for its big kink range and next-day delivery. In the US, Babeland, which lists BDSM and kink in its main menu. All three ship in plain packaging.

Are there BDSM shops with physical stores in the UK?

Simply Pleasure has high-street stores as well as its website, if you'd rather see gear before you buy it.

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